Why choose me as your navigator?
Separation and divorce are among life's most disorienting experiences - and the decisions you make in the middle of them can shape your finances, your family, and your future for years to come. Getting the right support early makes all the difference.
I'm a separation and divorce coach based in New Zealand, with a background in crisis negotiation, mediation, and law enforcement. I work with individuals and families navigating the end of a relationship who want to move through it with clarity, dignity, and as little collateral damage as possible.
Most people who come to me are spending thousands on legal fees, losing sleep over conflict that keeps escalating, and making decisions they'll later regret — simply because they don't have a clear-headed guide in their corner. Together we work through the practical and emotional complexity quickly and strategically, so you can protect what matters most: your children, your finances, and your wellbeing.
If you're ready to stop reacting and start making decisions you feel good about, I'd love to talk.
Jane, Auckland
"I was nervous about reaching out for support during such a difficult time, but from the very first session Spencer had me feeling completely at ease. He worked around my schedule without any fuss, and for the level of support and guidance I received, the pricing was honestly remarkable. The parenting plan he assisted me to develop was well thought through and met everyones needs. I couldn't have navigated this chapter without him"
James, Hibiscus Coast
"What struck me most was how much Spencer actually seemed to enjoy our sessions — there was never a moment where I felt like just another client on a list. He was incredibly flexible, rescheduling when life got chaotic (as it does during a separation). He assisted me to sort out the priority issues and this saved me so much time when I eventually had to go and see a lawyer. "
Phil, Christchurch
"Most coaches I have spoken to seem to genuinely cares, but I was drawn to Spencer because of his practical nature. It was reassuring to know that he had a range of qualifications, and I enjoyed reading his book, but what I found was the way he could simplify issues down to their simple basis and assist me in working out what to do."
