I thought some practical insights might be useful as while separation is emotionally demanding, it does not have to drain your bank account. Here are some strategies, and also ways I can helpyou through the process.
1. Consolidate Your Questions
Together we create a list of issues and questions to send all at once to your lawyer—it's more efficient and saves you money.
2. Email, Don’t Call
Written communication helps you stay on point and avoid unnecessary back-and-forth, keeping things efficient. I help you map out your written communication (even with your ex-partner!) so it's clear and succinct.
3. Delegate
Delegate to lower-cost team members. Better still, work through issues with me as your coach FIRST, especially anything that's not a legal issue. Ask for routine tasks to be handled by associates or paralegals—save your lawyer’s expertise (and their fees) for complex matters.
4. Be Organised
Having your documents ready and complete can drastically reduce time spent (and fees). I help my clients get organised from the start and stay on track.
5. Have a Clear Plan Know what you want and stick to it.
A clear consistent plan reduces unnecessary billable hours. Together we map out a plan - how you want life to look and feel way beyond your divorce - and all decisions are anchored to that plan. What is in best service to me getting to where I want to be? Saves you time spinning the wheels of indecision and therefore saves you $$$
6. Dispute Resolution Options
We look at your unique circumstances and explore your resolution options. Mediation, collaborative law, or Family Dispute Resolution, even online DIY options for a quicker, less expensive path through your divorce, and you choose accordingly.
7. Communicate With Your Ex & Reach Agreements Directly
I support you to have, if possible, direct communication with your ex-partner. Safe, productive conversations either face-to-face or via email, to reduce legal involvement. Guiding and supporting you to reach agreements with your ex directly and have them legally documented, saving legal fees and reducing conflict.
8. Know What’s Most Important
We go deep and get very clear on your values and what matters most to you. So you are clear on your wants, needs, non-negotiables and walk-away moments. You are supported to let go of irrelevant issues, remain on point and focus on what you truly need. (Note: need, not want)
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