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The Voice That Shaped Me: 10 Things My Mother Said That Changed Everything

  • spencermatthews1
  • Jun 16
  • 2 min read

Growing up, my mom was our family's anchor. She juggled countless responsibilities while somehow making it all look effortless. But beyond all the daily tasks and sacrifices, she gave me something far more valuable—an internal voice that still guides me today.

What started as her words have become my own thoughts, a steady source of confidence that kicks in whenever I need it most. Here are the ten things she said that fundamentally shaped who I am:


1. "You are capable"

She'd say this when I tackled challenges or showed determination. It taught me that my worth wasn't tied to perfection, but to effort and character.


2. "You'll be a great father someday"

Even as a kid, she saw leadership qualities in me. I never had biological children, but faced challenges as a step-father and working with troubled youth. When doubt crept in, her voice reminded me I've got what it takes.


3. "I understand how you feel"

She always validated my emotions, even when she couldn't relate. This taught me that empathy is powerful—and it's shaped how I connect with others today.


4. "What's your plan?"

Instead of telling me what to do, she asked what I thought. This simple question taught me to trust my own judgment and think things through.


5. "You'll figure it out"

Her confidence in my decision-making built my self-reliance. She was there to catch me if I fell, but she let me take the wheel.


6. "Bring your friends over"

While I didn't actually bring many friends over, our house was always open. She showed me that hospitality isn't about having everything perfect—it's about making people feel welcome.


7. "I'm here when you need me"

Knowing she had my back gave me the security to take risks and be myself. That unconditional support was everything.


8. "I love you"

Simple words, but she said them like she meant them every single time. It taught me that love should be expressed freely and often.


9. "Go enjoy yourself"

She encouraged me to seek joy and adventure. Even now, she reminds me that taking time for myself isn't selfish—it's necessary.


10. "I'm proud of you"

Perhaps the most powerful words of all. Growing up hearing this taught me to be proud of myself, regardless of others' opinions.


These weren't just words—they were life lessons wrapped in love. That voice she planted in my head continues to guide my decisions, boost my confidence, and remind me of who I can be. Sometimes the most profound gifts come in the simplest packages.



 
 
 

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