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Blog Post 8: Building Resilient Relationships That Thrive Through Challenges
I'm walking the Camino del Norte so I've created this weekly series on relationships for while I am in Spain. I hope you find it...
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Oct 13, 20253 min read


Blog Post 7: Recognising When Relationships May Not Be Worth Saving
'm walking the Camino del Norte so I've created this weekly series on relationships for while I am in Spain. I hope you find it valuable....
spencermatthews1
Oct 6, 20253 min read


Blog Post 6: The Follow-Through That Makes All the Difference
I'm walking the Camino del Norte so I've created this weekly series on relationships for while I am in Spain. I hope you find it...
spencermatthews1
Sep 29, 20253 min read


Blog Post 5: Breaking Free from Destructive Relationship Patterns
I'm walking the Camino del Norte so I've created this weekly series on relationships for while I am in Spain. I hope you find it...
spencermatthews1
Sep 22, 20253 min read


Blog Post 4: Collaborative Problem-Solving That Strengthens Relationships
I'm walking the Camino del Norte so I've created this weekly series on relationships for while I am in Spain. I hope you find it...
spencermatthews1
Sep 15, 20253 min read


Blog Post 3: Uncovering the Hidden Needs Behind Relationship Conflicts
I'm walking the Camino del Norte so I've created this weekly series on relationships for while I am in Spain. I hope you find it...
spencermatthews1
Sep 8, 20252 min read


Blog Post 2: The Art of Active Listening in All Relationships
I'm walking the Camino del Norte so I've created this weekly series on relationships for while I am in Spain. I hope you find it...
spencermatthews1
Sep 1, 20252 min read


Blog Post 1: Creating Safe Spaces for Difficult Conversations
I'm walking the Camino del Norte so I've created this weekly series on relationships for while I am in Spain. I hope you find it...
spencermatthews1
Aug 25, 20252 min read


Breaking the Cycle: From Repeated Requests to True Partnership
Part three - lets discuss some practical solutions and next steps The good news is there are effective ways to address the needs that...
spencermatthews1
Aug 11, 20252 min read


Why We Get Stuck in the Cycle
Following on from last weeks blog, in part two lets explore the psychology behind both perspectives in the dynamic To break free from the...
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Aug 4, 20252 min read


When Simple Requests Turn Into Relationship Friction
This is Part One of a series discussing how simple requests can be a major sign of relationship breakdown. Come back over the coming...
spencermatthews1
Jul 28, 20252 min read


Using mediation in elder care decisions - part two
Carrying on from last weeks intitial descussion on making care decisions, this is a outline of how mediation occurs. 1. Focus on...
spencermatthews1
Jul 21, 20254 min read


Mediating on care arrangements - Part One
INTRODUCTION Few topics in family mediation have become as emotionally charged as care arrangements for aging parents. As adult children...
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Jul 14, 20254 min read


The dishes conversation
You're sitting at dinner with your partner, and they mention they forgot to pick up milk at the store. What starts as a simple statement...
spencermatthews1
Jul 7, 20252 min read


The Complexity Paradox
Please indulge me - I'm writing a book and trying out a few styles to see what 'sticks'. If you like this, please contact me and let me...
spencermatthews1
Jun 30, 20252 min read


Building Trust in Relationship
Can I trust you to be there when I'm upset? Can I trust you to choose me over others? Can I trust you to respect me? These were all...
spencermatthews1
Jun 23, 20252 min read


The Voice That Shaped Me: 10 Things My Mother Said That Changed Everything
Growing up, my mom was our family's anchor. She juggled countless responsibilities while somehow making it all look effortless. But...
spencermatthews1
Jun 16, 20252 min read


Are You Ready to Move In Together
Considering sharing a home with your partner? This significant step requires more than just combining addresses. Here's how to determine...
spencermatthews1
Jun 9, 20251 min read


10 Essential Things You Need for Successful Mediation: A Participant's Guide - Part 2
Continuing on from my previous post, here are the remaining 5 things you need to consider when going into mediation.I want to share the...
spencermatthews1
Jun 2, 20252 min read


10 Essential Things You Need for Successful Mediation: A Participant's Guide - Part One
I often get asked about the best way to approach a mediation. As someone about to enter mediation, you might feel uncertain about what...
spencermatthews1
May 26, 20252 min read
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